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. DO NOT BLAME THE FLOWERS! By Ross E F Lombardi . Don't blame the gentle morning light because you are blind. . Don't blame the bird song because you have lost your hearing. . Don't blame the rose just because you can no longer smell its scent. . Don't blame the honey or the salt just because you can no longer taste the flavours of life . Don’t blame the blood you shed For the pain of you are feeling from your bleeding wounds. . Don't blame the mirror because you are ugly . Don’t blame the library because you are stupid . Don’t blame the reactions of others For your underwhelming dull personality . Stop blaming the shit from your arse For how it smells When you choose the food, you ate. . Don’t blame the reactions of others When you spout hateful shit, That you knew would upset them. . Dear fellow men who also can't get laid.... . I can't get laid either... But ...being unfuckable is Not an excuse to be a misogynist prick ... Take the bad parts of life with...

. Dear men who can't get laid.... . I can't get laid either .. But ...being unfuckable is Not an excuse to be a mysogsnist prick ... Take the bad parts of life with courage and self discipline... Have some pride FFS.... Don't go around looking to blame everything else like some total weak minded wuss. . Don't blame the gentle morning light light because you are blind. . Don't blame the bird song because you have lost your hearing. . Don't blame the rose just because you can no longer smell it's scent. . Don't blame the mirror because you are ugly . Don't blame those you are sexuality attracted you for not wanting to fuck you . Have some bloody backbone, accept reality and don't be such a wimp. .

. You can not control the world  . And if you are the sort of person who wants to control, -  Then you the exact sort of person that should not control  anything. . Only those who do not want power Who sees the burden of it and never the privilege  Deserve to have it . But what you Can do is control yourself. . If enough people just followed these 4 simple rules  The rest would will sort itself out. . 1 Harm no one . 2 Help who you can. Defend who you can.  As much as you can. Even those who you hate and who hate you WITHOUT harming Anyone. (Don't use self righteous as a self license or excuse to harm anyone.) When it comes to violence, there is always an excuse - never a reason.  . 3 Your happiness and own life is Never That important. Ethics, self discipline, willpower, self control, What is right. These, selflessly in the service of the wider world without fear or favour are far more important, than You, your own safety, your own happiness, your lif...

. Question: “Without blaming my ex – “ “What could I have done differently in my last relationship?” . I’m honestly not sure... It was not mutual – I was dumped after 30 years. I have played the scenarios over and over in the dark while staring towards the ceiling a million times... And I am likely to do it a million more before I stop. – . What I do know is that I have let the pain change me. . She was disgusted my weight gain I have gone from a 50”” inch waste and a walking stick to a 38”” and dancing for hours at clubs. . I look after myself better And push myself to do more both domestically at home and out and about in the world. . I have tried to be better than I was And I am constantly judging and criticising myself to push myself hard to be more. . But this is the thing that gets to me… … She has not changed at all. Not even a bit She accepts no blame for the divorce She acts entitled and twist facts to make herself out to be some sort of victim SHE HAS REFUSED TO LEARN ANYTHI...

 I AM SAYING THAT.... The male lonelyness epidemic Is Our own fault! We men brought it upon ourselves! ....Because it IS our collective fault!! In 10,000 years of history... No church, political movement or fashion has ever succeeded in suppressing the natural human urge to enjoy fucking eachother.... Yet us men have managed to 'achieve' this very same stupidity... 'Achieved' what no organised body has ever managed before - Making what used to be fun for all - far too dangerous to be fun anymore... For anyone - Just by acting like petulant morons - in just a blink of an natural history eye. We Did This! We made bears a better choice! And now you want to act like victims about it??!! FFS!! Well the damage repair starts with You. Each of us men needs to look in a fucking mirror and ask some hard questions of ourselves. .

. I'm not scared of dying. . I'm not scared of failing. That's just easy 'old hat' now. . I'm not scared of growing old and dying alone, it sucks but I am coming to terms with that fate. . I'm not scared of going to hell. Because god is an evil unjust entity that can go and fuck himself. . I'm not scared of loneliness. Because thats how things should be. It's the natural order of things. . But one thing DOES scare me. . But what truly terrifies me, what scares me the most, that keeps me up at night is... ... What if no matter how hard I try? No matter how hard I am on myself? How strict? How ruthless I am to myself?... ...What if? I can never really become good person? .

. …A little wisdom for you. . The People You Push Away Those You Alienate Those who You Reject – FIRST – Before they can reject you… CAN NOT HURT YOU ANYMORE! . You pain is Not caused by Loneliness! It is caused by the weakness of emotionally needing others. BE STONGER THAN THAT! . No need = No pain . Loneliness is NOT a curse! Loneliness is a Shield! Do not resist Loneliness Do not fight Loneliness Absorb the Loneliness. - Meld into the Loneliness! - BE the Loneliness! Make it, not just, a part of You. Make Loneliness the real “You”! . MAKE “IT” - WHO “YOU” ARE! And never feel that pain again . .

I was at a bar, artistic event thing earlier this week. Talking to a pretty woman about 'stoof'. (The fact she was pretty IS Relevant: because unfortunately, being a weak human, I probably would not have been as affected by her advice if my attention was not as engaged. Being a feeble minded mere human sucks.) Anyway. I have heard allot of past advice about "my ex", or rather "my feelings about being dumped" that has been trite nonsense. "Forgive her" blah, blah style puke. . But This pretty total stranger, said something brand new. She said. "Maybe you still hate your ex," "Because it's a way of still keeping a part of her" - ouch! . For a brief second I was angry at this pretty stranger because she said something true. So, yes, -'OUCH!' . Then, to double down the universe made my taxi back to the hotel take extra long to turn up on a cold wet night, So I had to think about that insight. . This insight wasn't ab...