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I don't really understand?
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I jump onto an empty dance floor if I love the song!
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I really do not understand "embarrassment"
.
Not really
.
Not the way the rest of you seem too
.
What's it like?
.
.
Does it really feel so very bad?
that you have to let it hold you back so often? ?
.
.
This is not posted as a "Brag" "Spoof" or "Joke".
This is a real question about a real thing I am researching.
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Please send any links, article or ideas to
.
RATLOMBOT@GMAIL.COM
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It may seem like a superpower but my inability to get properly embarrassed has some negative knock-on effects.
1)
I am far less bothered about personal hygiene compared to other people
It is a dull upkeep chore so I do the bare minimum to maintain physical health.
.
The flip side of that is,
Getting dressed up does not add to my confidence, the same way it seems to for everyone else.
.
2)
I can accidentally be offensive or seem sexually aggressive when I am only trying to be humorous or funny.
Because when you do not feel embarrassment the way you perhaps should,
It means you find it hard to comprehend what other people might find embarrassing.
.
3)
In a place like a pub of a nightclub, it can lead to fights.
.
Because the people who see themselves as
"Socially important" or "Popular and cool" get really offended by the presence of someone who is unaffected and therefore has no concept of their social standards.
.
If self-image is important to you,
Then someone who holds no value of your self-image seems to make you irrationally angry.
.
So it can cause real physical and legal danger.
.
So why wait till now to start asking?
.
Yet another internet Troll threatened to embarrass me.
And I suddenly realised that threat held no meaning the way a physical threat would.
.
I am now 46 years old!
.
For the first time ever,
I'm asking
"Why don't I get embarrassed":
.
This might be a question I should have explored decades ago,
but it simply never occurred to me before to do so
.
THIS COULD BE THE VITAL MISSING KEY FOR ME TO ACHIEVING BETTER MENTAL HEALTH!
.
So the stakes are potentially pretty high!
.
(Hence the spamming of this request for public help in researching the subject.)
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.
.
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Public Research Help Request:
Embarrassment?
. .
I don't really understand?
.
I jump onto an empty dance floor if I love the song!
.
I really do not understand "embarrassment"
.
Not really
.
Not the way the rest of you seem too
.
What's it like?
.
.
Does it really feel so very bad?
that you have to let it hold you back so often? ?
.
.
This is not posted as a "Brag" "Spoof" or "Joke".
This is a real question about a real thing I am researching.
.
Please send any links, article or ideas to
.
RATLOMBOT@GMAIL.COM
.
.
It may seem like a superpower but my inability to get properly embarrassed has some negative knock-on effects.
1)
I am far less bothered about personal hygiene compared to other people
It is a dull upkeep chore so I do the bare minimum to maintain physical health.
.
The flip side of that is,
Getting dressed up does not add to my confidence, the same way it seems to for everyone else.
.
2)
I can accidentally be offensive or seem sexually aggressive when I am only trying to be humorous or funny.
Because when you do not feel embarrassment the way you perhaps should,
It means you find it hard to comprehend what other people might find embarrassing.
.
3)
In a place like a pub of a nightclub, it can lead to fights.
.
Because the people who see themselves as
"Socially important" or "Popular and cool" get really offended by the presence of someone who is unaffected and therefore has no concept of their social standards.
.
If self-image is important to you,
Then someone who holds no value of your self-image seems to make you irrationally angry.
.
So it can cause real physical and legal danger.
.
So why wait till now to start asking?
.
Yet another internet Troll threatened to embarrass me.
And I suddenly realised that threat held no meaning the way a physical threat would.
.
I am now 46 years old!
.
For the first time ever,
I'm asking
"Why don't I get embarrassed":
.
This might be a question I should have explored decades ago,
but it simply never occurred to me before to do so
.
THIS COULD BE THE VITAL MISSING KEY FOR ME TO ACHIEVING BETTER MENTAL HEALTH!
.
So the stakes are potentially pretty high!
.
(Hence the spamming of this request for public help in researching the subject.)
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
!
!
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