.
.
If you don't have trust then you don't have anything...
...You never had anything.
.
.
And 'yes' this may lead to you being easily cheated on.
But.
Ethics are not about "winning" or making sound tactical choices!
Ethics are only ever about ethics!
.
You are NOT responsible for Anyone Else's actions.
You are ONLY responsible for YOUR own actions.
.
Personally:
SIDE NOTE:
.
My ex-wife after throwing me away like garbage. (after 30 years)
Is now with someone new.
Despite the broken heart:
I take great spiteful solace that I have a weird point of view about ethics and love, That no one else seems to agree with.
.
This means that her 'new man' is not as weird as me.
This means that her 'new man' will be far more "normal".
.
She is not ready for how "normal" men are!
<evil grin>
.
And just like any more "normal" man,
Compared to my weird ass...
.
Her new bloke will be far more likely to cheat on her.
Compared to me.
.
He will be far less loyal.
Compared to me.
.
Random Internet person:
"Cheating in 2024 is not physical.
sending that friend request, liking their story, hiding text messages.
You're already beyond cheating."
.
ME:
I must be old and out of touch...
....Are we just talking about normal conversations about mundane general life stuff and sharing comedy cat memes here?
Like any other friend?
Or am I missing something here?
Because I want to be In a relationship without any needless insecurity on either side.
.
Random Internet person:
"Excuses"
.
"Cheating in 2024 is not physical.
sending that friend request, liking their story, hiding text messages.
You're already beyond cheating."
.
ME:
I must be old and out of touch...
....Are we just talking about normal conversations about mundane general life stuff and sharing comedy cat memes here?
Like any other friend?
Or am I missing something here?
Because I want to be In a relationship without any needless insecurity on either side.
.
Random Internet person:
"Excuses"
.
ME:
Nope,
Married for 30 years and was never unfaithful.
Divorced now.
Been single for 2 years.
My ex-wife is still the last person I kissed.
So, as I said,
"I must be old and out of touch.."
.
Even as my marriage fell apart I would not have been unfaithful,
Not because of how I felt about her,
(she can rot in hell)
But instead because of how I feel about myself!
- I have too much sense of honour, pride and personal discipline to use a bad relationship as a silly weak ass excuse, to ever let myself be less, than I should be.
I don't go around believing that a person's personal happiness, especially mine, is somehow the most important thing in the world.
Ethics are!
.
Nope,
Married for 30 years and was never unfaithful.
Divorced now.
Been single for 2 years.
My ex-wife is still the last person I kissed.
So, as I said,
"I must be old and out of touch.."
.
Even as my marriage fell apart I would not have been unfaithful,
Not because of how I felt about her,
(she can rot in hell)
But instead because of how I feel about myself!
- I have too much sense of honour, pride and personal discipline to use a bad relationship as a silly weak ass excuse, to ever let myself be less, than I should be.
I don't go around believing that a person's personal happiness, especially mine, is somehow the most important thing in the world.
Ethics are!
.
Quite frankly.
The statement,
"Cheating in 2024 is not physical.
sending that friend request, liking their story, hiding text messages.
You're already beyond cheating."
sending that friend request, liking their story, hiding text messages.
You're already beyond cheating."
Sounds suspiciously like the sort of thing an abusive over-controlling partner might say:
To excuse abhorrent actions,
Such as a gross invasion of privacy of their partner.
(the person they are supposed to be in love with)
.
...And I apply THIS reasoning to any gender acting this way to any other gender in a couple..
If you don't have trust then you don't have anything...
...You never had anything.
.
.
And 'yes' this may lead to you being easily cheated on.
But.
Ethics are not about "winning" or making sound tactical choices!
Ethics are only ever about ethics!
.
You are NOT responsible for Anyone Else's actions.
You are ONLY responsible for YOUR own actions.
.
Personally:
Instead of becoming the WORST person I can be BECAUSE of how the world really is.
I want to be the BEST person I can DESPITE how the world really is.
.
.I want to be the BEST person I can DESPITE how the world really is.
.
SIDE NOTE:
.
My ex-wife after throwing me away like garbage. (after 30 years)
Is now with someone new.
Despite the broken heart:
I take great spiteful solace that I have a weird point of view about ethics and love, That no one else seems to agree with.
.
This means that her 'new man' is not as weird as me.
This means that her 'new man' will be far more "normal".
.
She is not ready for how "normal" men are!
<evil grin>
.
And just like any more "normal" man,
Compared to my weird ass...
.
Her new bloke will be far more likely to cheat on her.
Compared to me.
.
He will be far less loyal.
Compared to me.
.
He will fight less hard for 'them', as a couple.
Compared to me.
.
.
He will care less for her.
Compared to me.
Compared to me.
.
He will be far less committed to her.
Compared to me.
.
Compared to how I once did.
She will never be loved as deeply as she once was by "weirdo" me, - by anyone, ever again.
.
And when the pain comes for her
As I am certain it will.
And her tears stain her pillow.
Maybe her sorry 'stupid girl' ass will understand what she flushed down a sewer.
Compared to me.
.
Compared to how I once did.
She will never be loved as deeply as she once was by "weirdo" me, - by anyone, ever again.
.
And when the pain comes for her
As I am certain it will.
And her tears stain her pillow.
Maybe her sorry 'stupid girl' ass will understand what she flushed down a sewer.
And realise the love and commitment that she threw away like garbage.
.
And 'IF' I hear about it
(...and as I plan to avoid her and not speak to her ever again if I possibly can - I might not hear about it at all. - But IF I DO ever hear about it...!)
.
And 'IF' I hear about it
(...and as I plan to avoid her and not speak to her ever again if I possibly can - I might not hear about it at all. - But IF I DO ever hear about it...!)
.
THEN!
I will fucking laugh my arse off at her suffering!
.
I will fucking laugh my arse off at her suffering!
.
.
Burn in hell bitch!
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