RE: The REDCAR Bar Scene

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RE: The REDCAR Bar Scene.

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I think I am coming to realise that spending £30 a week in the normal Redcar bar scene is a waste of time, energy, and money.

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There are some great people in Redcar that I am glad I have met, 

But it is not really "me".
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Usually, at best, I am given a patronising pat on the head and merely tolerated - not really liked. 

- And that's ok.
I am not delusional.
I know I am too odd, and too weird for most people.
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But if I have limited resources, and IF I want to meet the right person and fall in love again, then the normal Redcar bar scene is just simply 'bad product placement'.
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Looking for romance-wise, I am far better off spending the same, time energy and money going to more art events, or writing-type stoof.

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I need to place the right product (me) on the right kind of shelf in the right kind of shop.

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I need to be in places with people who are as weird and as odd as I am, 

Instead of trying to hang with the 'cool kids'.

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I need to find and stick to my type of tribe.
Not normal people groups, who I can never truly be a real part of.
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I don't belong in most places.
But there are places I might belong, 

And I doubt any of those places are a regular bar scene.

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#redcar

#barscene

#singlelife

#lookingforlove

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