. THE UNGIVEN TO THE UNFORGIVEN. . In line with the sentimental statement "You never know how much you miss someone until you have something exciting to tell them and they are not there" I GET IT! . I am divorced, I hate my ex-wife. I refuse to ever see or speak to her again - Even IF that means missing the future weddings of my children, OR the future christenings of my grandkids! If she is there - Then I refuse to be there. She will NEVER be forgiven! . BUT! Despite all this, I saw a purse that She would have loved at a market stall for Christmas, It was a black cloth one, with red roses growing through a skull. (but in a pretty way) I even pointed it out as a cool gift idea, for her, to my kids. Knowing that she would have loved that purse, That I could not ever share how cool it was with her, And that I could not give it to her, - (because, I truly forever loath that woman.) - This made me sad It made me both briefly miss Her and mourn the loss of our 30 years together, ....