SOMETIMES CRUSHES ARE BETTER LEFT AS CRUSHES!

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SOMETIMES CRUSHES ARE BETTER LEFT AS CRUSHES!
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While sometimes this is because you never really get to know them,
The glamour fairy dust never falls from your eyes...
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Sometimes you DO get to know them,
And you realize that although the crush is powerful and feels hard to deal with,
That You would both be really, Really, REALLY bad for each other and make each other miserable!
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A bit like a moth and flame situation
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Both of you were moths made out of flames
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Despite being made of flames yourself the other person's flame was a weird magical flame that still scorched you,
- And your strange flame still scorched them!
- Neither of you is immune to the other person's special cursed flame.
- That this 'opposite flame' would still burn each other to death.
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Really caring about someone is about NOT being selfish,
And NOT making things about YOU!
If you honestly DO care about them,
Then you will do what is right,
And put their happiness FIRST! - Instead of your own myopic neediness!
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Real strength is Not in what you take, demand, desire and want...
...Real strength is in what you Give, Offer, Care about, and Value!
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And THIS is what separates so-called 'real macho men', So-called 'real feminine women' and Mere animals and beasts of our species.
From the real HUMAN BEINGS!
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IF there is such a thing as a hell and a heaven?
Then THIS is what frightens the devils
- and makes the angels weep that they can never be as touched with the divine as we mere mortals!
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And IF there is No afterlife at all?
Then becoming THIS higher level of being,
Would be our only hope of salvation for our entire pathetic species!

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#love

#Crush

#higher self

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