. TIME TO LET GO AND FLY?! . I turned off my dating apps I was going to wait until my eHarmony sub ended in July 2026, As I'm still stuck paying for that garbage, I thought, . "Well, if I'm stuck paying for it - then I might as well use it" . - but now I'm thinking I instead, . "Screw it. Let them keep Their money. Let the money be wasted. I am done. I just want to quit." . The butterfly can no longer eat leaves like it used to as a caterpillar. It can still like leaves, It can miss eating leaves. It can wish to be a caterpillar again as much as it wants - but it still ain't gonna happen - it will still stay a butterfly. The butterfly has to accept that the eating leaves life phase is over. It will never eat leaves again! It must learn to let go and now embrace being a butterfly and what that means, both good and bad. . Just as a butterfly, I also need to embrace my new life phase and forever let go of my old life phase. . Problem: Hope hurts. . So...