!
.
“Never give up on someone with a mental illness.
When ‘I’ is replaced by ‘We’,
Illness becomes Wellness.”
.
- Shannon I, Alder
.
(It is worth noting that the above also applies to the ‘Mentally ill’ themselves!
"Do not give up on yourself!")
.
BUT!
.
It is worth noting that the below ALSO applies,
.
DO NOT let someone use their “Mental Illness” or “Tragic Past” to "License" themselves to be an emotionally or physically abusive romantic partner!
.
You still retain the right to human dignity and the choice to walk away from a toxic manipulative relationship without needless guilt!
.
EG,
.
Yes, I am sorry a blood relative touched you inappropriately
or beat you
as a child,
.
But that does not mean that I am,
.
“Unsympathetic”
.
Or
.
"Unloving”
.
Because I will not let you steal from Me and fuck other people!
.
I am not going to let you control me or feel guilty about dumping your arse if you act like a total 'shit head' to me!
.
You, being a victim in the past,
.
Does NOT in any way give you a 'license' or ‘Golden Ticket’ to be a crap person to Me now!
.
Tragically, sometimes - Shannon I, Alder is wrong, and you DO have to walk away!
.
You have a duty of care, true
But your first duty of care is always to yourself.
.
Real-life is not Disney's “Beauty And The Beast”
Real-life is domestic mental, emotional and physical torture and death.
You are not a “martyr to love”
You are just being turned into yet another mere victim statistic!
.
GROW UP!
.
STOP DELUDING YOURSELF!
.
STOP LISTENING TO “THEM”!
.
AND LEAVE!
.
.
NOTE
There is no sexuality or gender barrier here.
Women also abuse men!
Men also abuse men!
Women also abuse women!
Because being a sadistic arse hole in a relationship is a game every cunt can enjoy!
.
And if my use of swearing is what you are finding offensive here then you are being offended by all the wrong things!
.
.
DATING THE MENTALLY ILL!
(SOME NOTES and strongly some offensive language!)
.“Never give up on someone with a mental illness.
When ‘I’ is replaced by ‘We’,
Illness becomes Wellness.”
.
- Shannon I, Alder
.
(SHE IS WRONG!)
. (It is worth noting that the above also applies to the ‘Mentally ill’ themselves!
"Do not give up on yourself!")
.
BUT!
.
It is worth noting that the below ALSO applies,
.
DO NOT let someone use their “Mental Illness” or “Tragic Past” to "License" themselves to be an emotionally or physically abusive romantic partner!
.
You still retain the right to human dignity and the choice to walk away from a toxic manipulative relationship without needless guilt!
.
EG,
.
Yes, I am sorry a blood relative touched you inappropriately
or beat you
as a child,
.
But that does not mean that I am,
.
“Unsympathetic”
.
Or
.
"Unloving”
.
Because I will not let you steal from Me and fuck other people!
.
I am not going to let you control me or feel guilty about dumping your arse if you act like a total 'shit head' to me!
.
You, being a victim in the past,
.
Does NOT in any way give you a 'license' or ‘Golden Ticket’ to be a crap person to Me now!
.
Tragically, sometimes - Shannon I, Alder is wrong, and you DO have to walk away!
.
You have a duty of care, true
But your first duty of care is always to yourself.
.
Real-life is not Disney's “Beauty And The Beast”
Real-life is domestic mental, emotional and physical torture and death.
You are not a “martyr to love”
You are just being turned into yet another mere victim statistic!
.
(“They” are constantly lying!)
.
(They are NOT REALLY sorry!
.
(They will NOT change!)
.
(They WILL do it again!)
.
(You did NOT “make them” do anything!)
.
(You did NOT “Make them” “that way”!)
.
(You did do NOT “Bring out the worst “ in them!)
.
(They are NOT “Different” or an “exception”!)
.
(It was NOT your fault!)
.
(It WAS their fault each and every time!)
.GROW UP!
.
STOP DELUDING YOURSELF!
.
STOP LISTENING TO “THEM”!
.
AND LEAVE!
.
.
NOTE
There is no sexuality or gender barrier here.
Women also abuse men!
Men also abuse men!
Women also abuse women!
Because being a sadistic arse hole in a relationship is a game every cunt can enjoy!
.
And if my use of swearing is what you are finding offensive here then you are being offended by all the wrong things!
.
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