. Some Obscure Compliments and some of their potential Real Definitions. . HERETIC: Somone who does not care what your church thinks. . WOKE / SNOWFLAKE: Somone who cares far more about others who are in need - Then they do about what some other selfish people think. . FREAK: Someone who does not care about others opinions, about how they choose to look. . TROUBLEMAKER: Somone who dares question an official authority figure. . ARSE HOLE: Somone who dares question an unofficial popular authority figure. . DICK HEAD: Somone who dares disobey an unofficial popular authority figure. . WANKER: Somone who does not care what some unofficial popular authority figure thinks about them. . TWAT: Someone actively, standing up against an unofficial popular authority figure. . LOSER: Someone with less than the insulter: Usually, the insulted is being unjustly punished for daring to disobey an unofficial popular authority figure. . TOTAL LOSER: Someone with less than the insulter: Usually, the insul...

. I NEVER EVER! By Ross E F Lombardi . It has been said by the trite, that.. "You should only be with someone that feels lucky to have you..." . HA,! As if! No one Ever felt that about me! = Ever! . I am Mr 'rebound' Mr 'second choice' or 'third' or 'fourth choice' Mr 'better than nothing' Mr 'Well, No one else is asking Me out' . No one Ever felt 'Lucky' to have me! I am only a person that she will settle for. I'm the 'on sale shelf item'. I have never been any woman's 'first choice' = Ever! . I have never been a wistful memory, I have never been a romantic fantasy. I have never been a bitter-sweet regret. I have never been some woman's ultimate crush. . I have never been the cause of her broken heart, . Now at 52 years old, It's all too late... I now know that I Never will. . . PS And before you ask about my 30-year marriage... I was Never, her first choice. I loved her, But to her, I w...

. . . For those that might need to know, Who know and meet me in person, Not just know me via social media, - - - My Mum, Jackie Lombardi died on the 21st of January 2025 at roughly 12:15 pm. So, for a while. I may not be my 'normal' self. . . . Signed Ross E F Lombardi AKA Rat Lombot Whenever I have defeated the odds Whenever I have been stubborn beyond reason Whenever I held my ground and took the beating instead of being a coward, Whenever I have shown iron will and a refusal to quit long after most others would have given up. Some have rolled their eyes and said, "Typical bloody-minded idiot stubborn man!" But I tell you this now... None of those traits have anything to do with my gender, manhood or because I am male, at all, even a tiny bit. . . . - - - . . . IF I am being strong or tough, When I show a fighter's heart and still get up when others scream, "Stay down you moron!" "Stay the fuck down!" "Or they will destroy you!...

 . A Note To "Me" From "Me" . Dear "Me", . "Suck it up, Princess," "You are lonely." "You will stay lonely." "Nothing much you can do about it" . "If you are suffering at all,"  "Then it is Your fault for being needy and weak-willed!" "Be Stronger! - Dumb Arse!" . "So, Stop being a wuss!" "It is only pain! - You pussy!" "Just brace yourself and grit Your teeth!" . "Toughen up you little shit!" "Stop whining like a little bitch about it and just take it!" . . Signed "Me" . . NOTE: Although I do say this to myself, (more than I should) It is really also a self-criticism, - Because it is this exact same type of toxic macho thinking that makes suicide the leading cause of death in men over 50. - So, yes, while I do say this stuff to myself - I really shouldn't! Really I need to lose the ghost of past male culture and look after ...

. Don't fight the loneliness. Forget trying to solve it! The loneliness is not your enemy. Meld with it, Embrace it. Make the loneliness part of you. Become one with it! . . This was just my poetic way of telling myself, . A Note To "Me" From "Me" . Dear "Me", . "Suck it up, Princess," "You are lonely." "You will stay lonely." "Nothing much you can do about it" . "If you are suffering at all,"  "Then it is Your fault for being needy and weak-willed!" "Be Stronger! - Dumb Arse!" . "So, Stop being a wuss!" "It is only pain! - You pussy!" "Just brace yourself and grit Your teeth!" . "Toughen up you little shit!" "Stop whining like a little bitch about it and just take it!" . . Signed "Me" . . . Twitter version: . Dear Me Suck it up Princess U will stay lonely Nothing much U can do about it If U are suffering Then it is Your fau...

 ! 3-week rule! ! Actually, some of us, (I admit not many of us, but some do) DO Have ethics! ! - For instance, I have a 3-week rule, I would never ask a female friend who has broken up with someone until 3 weeks has passed, To make sure the break-up is genuine and not just a random passionate temporary fight. All couples have problems and it is your duty to support friends as a couple to help them stay together! I certainly would not take advantage of a female friend with a broken heart! - I do not want to get in the way of a friend and their happiness just because they are a woman! ! THREE WEEK RULE! Let's ALL make this a thing! So people can concentrate on being a decent human being first and slave to their egos, sexualities and desires second! !

! MY TWO SUPER HASSLE-CAUSING VIDS OF 2024! . Link to "Get e'm Out Lass, for all to See" https://youtube.com/shorts/Iol6UMpEo-s?si=85LeMmWdY2_6xFbU This anti-sexism video points out how Personal Values and Ethics are more attractive than mere looks. . NOTES: A ) The amount of skin is NOT really any more than you would see at a swimming pool… . B ) Prince, 1988 Lovesexy album (among other male artists) have shown just as much skin in posters and album covers that have been openly shown in family shopping centres all over the world. . C ) My parody video is an attempt at comedy, And is clearly hashtagged #Poetry #Comedy #Humour #Cringe #sexisim #tits I DO NOT see myself as “Sexy” This is NOT some misplaced attempt to seduce anyone. I see myself and a silly flabby ugly bloke who accepts that he looks like human walking garbage pile, and who is shrugging his shoulders and just leaning into it for comic effect. You are supposed to LAUGH at my body, not be offended by it! . . ...

. “IF” Thy Soul Is Left NOT consumed! By Ross E F Lombardi . This is going to seem like yet more religious stoof. But Wait! Like some things, I write, There is a twist to this bit. An end you may not expect - that you will get, But we are not there yet. . The Human soul. Like an apple ripening on the tree. The tarnished soul goes to apple hell, To be crushed and burned and boiled, Turned into poison, Turned into delicious cider for Satan. Such is the fate of the apple not good enough for the high Lord's table. . I know, - I Know! - This is going to seem like yet more preachy stoof. But wait a little bit longer! Like some things, I write, There is a twist to this bit. An end you may not expect - that you will get, But we are not there yet. . The Human soul. Like an apple ripening on the tree. An unblemished soul goes to Apple Heaven, To be in a beautiful fruit bowl. In the Lord's mansion before the golden throne, Presented by the angels before God...

. I meet a surprising amount of people who, for one reason or another, enjoy looking down on someone else - "Too posh" "Too Plebby" "Too Cool" "Not cool enough" "This reason" "That reason" "Some other reason" - The excuses are endless! - And All I can think is... … "...I wonder what that feels like?" "To feel better than someone else?" "It must feel nice!" I wish I could think and convince myself of some half-arsed, pulled-out-of-my-butt, Bullshit to make myself feel superior, better and more confident! I want to have a go! I just can't trick myself into believing that stuff! No matter how hard I try! I just hear the voice at the back of my head saying instead, "Don't be a bloody idiot!" "You know that you are shit!" . I WISH I could be an "elitist condescending pratt" - Just for a little while! - Just to see if it feels as good as it seems! .

A Lack of Reason. By Ross E F Lombardi. . I lack Reason, I lack Any Reason . So, Here is some advice, . Never expect Reasonable behaviour- -From an unreasonable person! ...And ... I warn you all now ...! I am Not a reasonable person! I suffer from a lack of Reason. . Reason? I have none! . No Reason to have a shower. No Reason to wash the dishes. No Reason to brush my teeth. No Reason to change my sheets. . If - My only Reason is my self-respect? If - My only Reason is for myself? If - My only Reason is for me? Then I have nothing! No Reason at all! . Like a reverse Ad for 'Loreal' parody, .... ... "Not a chance-In-hell...!" "...Because I am Not worth it...!" . I suffer from a lack of Reason. Because my Reason dumped my like trash, So, I must be Trash! Because she was never wrong. . My Reason treated Me like garbage. So, I must be Garbage! Because she was always right. . I ...

  ON ROMANCE: If it is not crazy, foolish, idiot, passionate, sacred, romantic love. If it is not REAL! If it is only "comfortable and convenient" Then it is NOT worth it! It is better to be alone instead! . It must be Real OR Nothing! I will NOT compromise on this! .

DEATH TO ALL TYRANTS! . A poem, By Ross E F Lombardi . Death to All Tyrants... And Death to Kings and Queens Death to Dukes and Duchesses’ Death to Counts and Countesses Death to all that serve them Death to all that might become them Death to their entire bloodline Death to all who aspire to be a version of them Death to their supporters Death to their servants Death to the families of their servants Death to their livestock Death to their pets Death to their gardens Death to the keeper of their livestock Death to the keepers of their pets Death to their gardeners Death to all their staff, and anyone who knows any member of their staff. Death to anyone who tries to stop you Death to the family and friends of those who try and stop you. Death to anyone who disagrees with you, Or who is not agreeing emphatically enough! Death to the toxic land, Death to the toxic sky Death to the toxic sea Then toxify the entire environment that was once your enemies And repeat. Death all those too weak...

. THE UNGIVEN TO THE UNFORGIVEN. . In line with the sentimental statement "You never know how much you miss someone until you have something exciting to tell them and they are not there" I GET IT! . I am divorced, I hate my ex-wife. I refuse to ever see or speak to her again - Even IF that means missing the future weddings of my children, OR the future christenings of my grandkids! If she is there - Then I refuse to be there. She will NEVER be forgiven! . BUT! Despite all this, I saw a purse that She would have loved at a market stall for Christmas, It was a black cloth one, with red roses growing through a skull. (but in a pretty way) I even pointed it out as a cool gift idea, for her, to my kids. Knowing that she would have loved that purse, That I could not ever share how cool it was with her, And that I could not give it to her, - (because, I truly forever loath that woman.) - This made me sad It made me both briefly miss Her and mourn the loss of our 30 years together, ....

. What I suspect Tarot cards actually are.... . I don't believe in "Tarot Reading" - But I do suspect that tarot is an obfuscated 'shadow book' that uses coded symbolism instead of text to represent a 'Secret Heretical Judeo-Christian Philosophy'  And that it is a key primary source for certain, once banned, esoteric doctrine. - A way to spread Gnostic-based thought, hidden in plain sight. . But I am a nut case that believes a lot of weird crap after a few bad dreams.... ...So, Maybe you should not read too much into this crazy theory! . No need to "sacrifice any bulls here"! .

. It is hard being a satirist nowadays , Because so much bizarre stuff has happened in only the last 10-20 years,  That if you tried to explain it to anyone in the early 90s, They would think you were just making silly crap up!  No matter how ridiculous a comment you make  - No matter how extreme the words  - How silly you get -  To be as crystal clear as possible, That is just Satire -  In today's screwed-up world,  There are STILL people who will think you are serious! . ...And to be honest, These are NOT stupid gullible people! Such weird strange stoof has happened, So often lately, That you can not really blame them for that! .

. How I survive my depression. . This might not be suitable for you... But personally, I keep myself angry. It almost does not matter about what. But I use rage as a natural antidepressant. I use anger to keep the depression at bay. . Yes, It is a sucky way to live. . It's a crap choice, Anger or depression. But it has kept me alive so far... #mentalhealth #mental illness #drepressed #depression #surviving #heartbreak

. My 2025 plan . 1 ) Close down all dateing app profiles. (Done) . 2 ) Spend a lot less time and money in cafes, clubs and bars. I still do it sometimes, but I cut it down to less than 50 per cent or less. . 3 ) Start saving money to destroy my overdraft this year (making me totally Debt-free) Then start building up savings after that. . 4 ) Reduced public creative output. Galleries, poetry performances, social media posts and vids to 50 per cent or less. . 5 ) Keep the fat weight off but now start working on improving muscle (thin style not bulky) tone. . 6 ) Learn new skills and new hobbies. (Maybe, learn to play an instrument and to perform as a singer who also plays guitar? - Or maybe do something else?) . 7 ) Find a new life direction, meaning and definition. Work out who the hell I really am and what that really means. Who IS "Ross"??? Now that I can no longer ever be someone's husband anymore?? I feel that I am a total stranger to myself. . 8 ) Keep the new friend...

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? Is ANYONE else Completely Terrified About the 30% rise in "No-fault Evictions" As a growing number of Landlords race against time against the new tenancy rights laws being passed? (Or is it just me being paranoid and worried for no good reason?) ? ? There is a huge rise in "no-fault evictions" as landlords race against the new tenant's rights bill next year...  It's up 30% already. - And climbing. And I am sure plenty would love to see me run out of Redcar. - Just over my anti-racist stances alone!  . ( NOTE: To Be Completely clear! - I am NOT, Repeat NOT! Implying that my landlords have any such views, AT ALL, NOT even a tiny bit! - I am only saying that is why I feel much of the town, in general, does not like me. That Is All! - AND even THEN I am not mentally well much of the time, so, even THAT is probably just irrational paranoia talking... ...And only just all in my head - rather than being at all real, At all... !!) .  And just in general I have m...

  . CE n O more . A Digital Composite Image By Ross E F Lombardi . . PS  I am not claiming what is right or wrong  Good or bad  The image exists NOT because I am judging  It exists because I don't know how to feel about this  A human life was taken and that was wrong  But I also understand why  & why some people are cheering  I feel conflicted and unsure .